
Married women in china are committing suicide more than men. It is mostly occur in the villages which are three times higher than cities. Women are leaving there families and live in alien family. Their marriage like business deals where the brides are like an object for sell. Mostly this arranged married is common there due their culture believes.
According to head of suicide prevention project, that over 70% of women commits suicide due to a result of conflicts between husbands and wives. The traditional values mean problems according to China foremost women’s magazine. The reason of committing suicide is trying to get the husband attention. In the Chinese society women are forced to abort their child if it is a baby girl. That result could cause in next decade that boys are more than girls, which lead young men to unable to find wives.
Xu Rong’s organization is trying to prevent suicides by teaching and giving support. For examples there programs are teaching base skills to face society and take control their lives. All these programs are helping women to determining the future for China’s women to gain their confidence.These projects are small, but other forces are also at work which are determining the future for China's women.
City life allows girls to take control of their lives and have a career
In the manufacturing hubs of the south-east coastal provinces, up to 70% of the millions of migrant workers are women, mostly in their teens and 20s.
Although many will return to the countryside to marry, the experience of being away from home can be life-changing.The move to the city is not without risk. Many young women have been sexually abused by their bosses, and working conditions are often abysmal.But there are advantages.Here, relationships are formed away from the prying eyes of parents and matchmakers,and young women experience a wider world far removed from the farms where they grew up.Perhaps most importantly, young women away from home - whether in the factories or at the training school in Beijing - are gaining in confidence.
They are discovering their own individual worth and their own potential.
As one trainee says: "Before I came here my mum told me it was better to marry well than study well.
"But after coming here I didn't think my aim should be to get myself a good husband. I'd do better fighting for a career of my own."
China: Women of the Country was broadcast on Tuesday, 20 June, 2006 at 2100 BST on BBC Two.